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“My daughter just doesn’t listen to me anymore. She won’t talk to me either—when I try all we end up doing is yelling. She’s never home … sometimes I don’t even know where she is. I feel like I don’t know my own daughter.”
It’s not unusual for families of teenagers to go through changes as their kids test out their independence. But in some cases, these changes can be downright scary.
Things to Keep in Mind:
Keeping your child safe is the most important thing. If you believe he or she is in immediate danger, contact the local authorities (police, 911).
When talking to your child, try lowering your voice in spite of the emotion you’re feeling. In doing so, you can help calm things and improve the chance that they’ll be willing to listen.
Always, always tell your child you love them.
Remember that struggles do not equal failure.
How Lifeline Can Help:
Home-Based Services – We bring help to you. One of our caring staff will meet with you and your family in your own home to talk about the problems and map out some real solutions.
Residential Care – In more serious situations, we have group homes to temporarily care for children who are in a crisis situation or who need a “wake-up” call.
Responsible Thinking Classes – Join a class with other parents who are dealing with similar issues. Together you’ll learn about the thought patterns that may be tripping your family up—and more importantly, how to combat them.
